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How to Stop Worrying and Start Living

This is Dale Carnegie's summary of his book, from 1948

Fundamental facts you should know about worry

1. If you want to avoid worry, do what Sir William Osler did: Live in "day-tight compartments." Don't stew about the futures. Just live each day u ntil bedtime.

2. The next time Trouble--with a Capital T--backs you up in a corner, try the magic formula of Willis H. Carrier:

   1. Ask yourself, "What is the worst that can possibly happen if I can't solve my problem?

   2. Prepare yourself mentally to accept the worst--if necessary.

   3. Then calmly try to improve upon the worst--which you have already mentally agreed to accept.

3. Remind yourself of the exorbitant price you can pay for worry in terms of your health. "Those who do not know how to fight worry die young."

Everything Happens For a Reason

Everything Happens For A Reason

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be, your neighbor, your coworker, a long lost friend, or a complete stranger. When you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/spiritual-articles/8730-everything-happens-for-a-reason.html

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved,straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.
Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen.

Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=8730

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

Most importantly if you Love someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.
Learn a lesson in life each day that you live. That's the story of Life.

- Unknown Author
 

I play to win, whether during practice or a real game. And I will not let anything get in the way of me and my competitive enthusiasm to win.
Michael Jordan
 

The Optimist Creed

Promise yourself ...

To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.

To think only of the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

Written by Christian D. Larson in 1912

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F.O.C.U.S. for bigger results:
 

As you move forward on your journey from where you are to where you want to be, you are going to have to confront your fears.  Fear is natural. Whenever you start  a new project, take on a new venture, or put yourself out there, there is usually fear.  Unfortunately, fear stops many people from pursuing and achieving their dreams of success.

Millions of years ago, fear was essential for protecting us from dangers like saber-toothed tigers. Today, however, most of our threats are not life-threatening. The fear we feel doesn’t protect us; it hinders our growth.

F.E.A.R. is an acronym for Fantasized Experiences Appearing Real. I’ve come up with a new acronym: F.O.C.U.S., which means Fantasized Outcomes Creating Unlimited Success.

Daily Disciplines for Effortless Success

One of the basic first steps is to determine, write down and talk about what you do want, not what you don’t want. Be as specific as possible. Once you have clarified what you want, do the following each and every day.

DEEPAK CHOPRA's one week plan for... Getting What You Want

by Yasmin Boland

Deepak Chopra,  believes we can all get what we want. All we have to do is learn about what he calls Synchro-destiny ...

The key to Synchro-destiny, says Deepak, is asking questions out loud without trying to find answers. This, he says, allows the Universe to provide you with what he calls "Synchro-destiny".

Indeed. What Carl Jung called "synchronicity" and James "Celestine Prophesy" Redfield called "meaningful coincidence", Chopra has coined "Synchro-destiny".

He says it's "the key to getting you whatever you want out of life". It's the way the 'Universe' (aka God, Source, the Field) helpfully points us all in the right direction, with gentle hints and nudges.

WHAT IS SYNCHRO-DESTINY?

Example 1: You're not happy in your job. For the first time in months you check out the newspaper employment section. Your dream job is advertised

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 Men are From Mars Women are From Venus-Dr. John Gray 

Article by Vishwalok Nath

Relationship Enrichment Seminar

Dr. John Gray author of the best seller “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus” 
Dr. Gray mentioned as a preamble to his talk that when his book ‘Men are from Mars, Women from Venus’ had come out he was questioned whether one can make generalizations in terms of the behaviour of men and women. The only response he gave was whether they resonated with what was written in the book and 100% of the time they replied ‘Yes’.

1. The differences between Men and Women are universal. Women all over the world complain that “He doesn’t understand”. “He doesn’t listen”. “Only time he touches me is when he wants sex”. And men all over the world complain that “She doesn’t want to have enough of sex.” (Unless the woman is around 37 years. At this magical age women want more of sex than ever before.)

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The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment is a self help book by Eckhart Tolle which seeks to bring about a transformation of human consciousness.

It was first published in 1997 as a small run of 3,000 copies. Its popularity began to grow, and that growth accelerated after Oprah Winfrey recommended it in her magazine,  in 2000 (though it was never one of her book club selections). It has been on the New York Times Best Seller list and has been translated into 33 languages.

The book focuses on spirituality and promotes no one religious tradition.

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